How did I understand Narcissistic Abuse?
My whole life, I never knew what narcissism was until I came across one that shed that light for me. Every time I heard the term narcissism, it always just let’s me think that this was just an awful or mean person. You know, a person who was not sensitive to your feelings, brushes you off, an addict, and so forth. Boy, I cannot be more wrong until I met a COVERT narcissist. As you know, if ever you take my coaching sessions, there are five traits to a narcissist and they are listed as:
Communal - a spiritual authoritative that grooms a community to fear them or to ensure they are brainwashed to praise this spiritual authoritative or healer.
Antagonists - Competitive and perceives to be better than everyone else, belittles other goals and achievements.
Overt - attention seekers, grandiose lifestyle, power, entitled, intelligent, superior, and manipulative.
Malignant - Very dangerous and mixed with anti-social disorder and psychopath.
COVERT - the most dangerous, as they are wolves in sheep’s clothing. Perceive to be nice, overly generous, emotionally fragile, do not like the word “NO” and unable to take any kind of criticism. Passive-aggressive, gives you the silent treatment, excessive need of admiration, hyper-focusing on fantasies of grandeur, excessive need of admiration, surrounding themselves with superficial relationships (basically a supply for them), and lack of empathy (empathy will only show for strangers but once close, you are no longer empathize by this narcissistic individual).
When I went through my healing with Elena and Dr. Ramani, one of the narcissistic traits I have encountered always was the antagonists and overt narcissists, as I had friends for many years and a family member that had no issue showing this. However, I was able to get over that through some of my healing process thinking it was just trauma from horrible things they did but never thought of the term Narcissism until very recently. Then, I went through one of the most painful feelings, as I had thought a very sweet person that gave me the world, security, and things I lacked of from my own family, discarded me SO SWIFTLY, and all of a sudden…I see a new person with the exact same personality trait, came to this person life and I was shunned away with a very poor excuse. Gave me the silent treatments, no explanations and I am positive I am being smeared within their community. Then I also experienced this abuse from MY OWN FAMILY MEMBERS. My mother showed signs of overt narcissism, tend to use my siblings as her flying monkeys, and created a SMEAR CAMPAIGN against me. It is absolutely the most horrifying experience to have lived on earth and I truly do not wish it on anyone else. As Dr. Ramani and my new healer has confirmed this to me that this can happen. When this incident took place in my life, it shook me to the core, it made me lose a sense of my identity and self-worth….ALL OVER AGAIN. I said to myself, “hell no! I did not come this far of my healing process to let ONE PERSON tell me otherwise just because I made a decision!”
I then decided to heal! By starting my own spiritual journey with new healers, meditating more within 30 minutes to one hour talking to God, asking if I made the right decision and moves into my life. Sure enough, I was receiving confirmations that I did because not sure what happened, but I was dedicated more than ever to receive my healing FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE THAT UNDERSTOOD WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME. My life then changed FOR THE BETTER. All of a sudden, my body is no longer in pain, I no longer have fatigue I dread before, more opportunities have entered my life, and I finally was able to achieve my dream of having MY OWN OFFICE. After making a decision that I have made, I knew then this was not an accident and it was not a mistake. It was all for the highest of all good to go through this excruciating pain I had experience. My life got better from there, as I healed this part of me and releasing this narcissistic energy with Oliver Nino, Elena, and Dr. Ramani’s help. Then one day, I just felt a holy ghost enter my body & began typing my own modules that became a need for everyone that came into my office. Since that experience, I have met so many people now that experience the same thing as I have. What is even more shocking, I also met people that went through the same experience I have just very recently. That is when the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & Coaching Program was created.
I created this program because after experiencing this kind of abuse and pain my whole life, I want to help people recover and release the energy from never attracting it again. When I tried the module for myself, I was very surprised how I recovered so quickly from that pain. If I was my old self, I would have probably isolated myself and give up on being a healer. However, I refuse to not give up on myself and use this experience to help people take their power back. I realized now that I am strong, worthy, and loved by my spirit guides. Remember, I know your spiritual journey can be a lonely one but I will tell you this, you are not alone, as your spirit guides are with you and true authentic people will gravitate to your life. A true family member, friend, or lover will NEVER discard you very swiftly or disregard your feelings with rebuttals. A true supportive healer, friend, family member, or lover will always be supportive, even in the most toughest times. As a healer myself, I will not discard or terminate anyone under my care, unless YOU decide that you are healed or part ways with me. Either way, I respect that always and I am here. Thank you for being part of Intertwine Healing & understanding my journey, as I want to understand yours and heal you from your pain. God bless you all. I am sending everyone love, healing, light, peace, acceptance, & abundance. -Intertwine
